{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Vicky Gooden","provider_url":"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com","author_name":"vickygooden","author_url":"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/index.php\/author\/vickygooden\/","title":"Mum's the word; 3 new responses to 'So, you got kids?' - Vicky Gooden","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"tz8AmZ7kk5\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/index.php\/2017\/05\/01\/mums-word-3-new-responses-gotare-trying-kids\/\">Mum&#8217;s the word; 3 new responses to &#8216;So, you got kids?&#8217;<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/index.php\/2017\/05\/01\/mums-word-3-new-responses-gotare-trying-kids\/embed\/#?secret=tz8AmZ7kk5\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Mum&#8217;s the word; 3 new responses to &#8216;So, you got kids?&#8217;&#8221; &#8212; Vicky Gooden\" data-secret=\"tz8AmZ7kk5\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vickygooden.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4210.jpg?fit=800%2C284&ssl=1","thumbnail_width":800,"thumbnail_height":284,"description":"Day 6 in hospital and I&#8217;m reflecting through very sore eyes, on all the messages I&#8217;ve received since my post about losing Little Bud. Life isn&#8217;t easy in a maternity block when in the middle of the night you hear little lamb like cries from the newborns being birthed just yards away. You take a moment to think &#8216;can I really hear that or am I going mad?&#8217; Because right now I&#8217;d believe the latter. I&#8217;ve looked out my window at the new families leaving in their family cars and whispered &#8216;well done mummy&#8217; as I look at the new mum cautiously waddling to get into the car next to her bundle &#8216;&#8230;you&#8217;re a miracle woman&#8217;. One of the main themes in the responses I&#8217;ve had is about the bit I posted on never ever asking anyone about their plans for having kids. In other words, their fertility status or their views on parenthood. Myself and my friends who are yet to be blessed with becoming parents or parents a second time round have discussed this at length particularly over the last year. And we&#8217;ve just had enough. This &#8216;had enough&#8217; applies to anyone around us asking about our most [&hellip;]"}