{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Vicky Gooden","provider_url":"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com","author_name":"vickygooden","author_url":"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/index.php\/author\/vickygooden\/","title":"What the hell is \u2018quality time\u2019 please? - Vicky Gooden","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"womIWFrFwM\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/index.php\/2018\/04\/07\/hell-quality-time-please\/\">What the hell is \u2018quality time\u2019 please?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/index.php\/2018\/04\/07\/hell-quality-time-please\/embed\/#?secret=womIWFrFwM\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;What the hell is \u2018quality time\u2019 please?&#8221; &#8212; Vicky Gooden\" data-secret=\"womIWFrFwM\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=http:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.vickygooden.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/IMG_5271-1024x477.jpg","thumbnail_width":1024,"thumbnail_height":477,"description":"Sometimes life can be freakin&#8217; overwhelming huh? Without divulging too much there\u2019s what feels like a ton going on around me at the mo, from a mum with a condition i&#8217;d never even heard of to a house extension and I know some problems are great problems to have, like the latter which I wouldn&#8217;t even call a problem as it\u2019s mega exciting and I\u2019m hugely lucky but sometimes balance goes out the window hey. It\u2019s made me think more about what \u2018quality time\u2019 means. Some days I come in from work and hubs and I sit to have dinner; he\u2019ll be on his laptop, so i\u2019ll check my phone. I\u2019ll be on my phone so he will check his. Conversation turns into weird little bites, sometimes random single words that the other person is supposed to decipher into some sort of coherent meaning. The best is when one of you goes \u2018oh my god!\u2019 at something that has happened on the phone so the other naturally goes \u2018what?\u2019 and the other one doesn&#8217;t offer up the goods as they are so engrossed, eyes flickering up and down like a hungry crazed loon at whatever is playing out on the [&hellip;]"}